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Career Coaching and The Power of Anchoring

In the quest for personal and professional growth, the journey often mirrors that of a hero’s: fraught with challenges, yet immensely rewarding. This path demands not only external efforts but also an introspective confrontation with one’s inner self. As a career coach, I’ve observed how vital it is for individuals to slay their “inner dragons” – be it uncertainty, perfectionism, or fear of the spotlight. This process is essential for emerging at a new, more empowered level.

Understanding the Inner Battle

The inner dragon represents personal challenges that hinder growth. These could be deep-seated fears, limiting beliefs, or unaddressed weaknesses. In my coaching practice, I present my clients with a symbolic coin featuring a phoenix and a dragon. This aids in visualizing the transformation process – from facing one’s fears (the dragon) to rising anew (the phoenix).

The Power of Self-Reflection

The journey to self-discovery is deeply personal. I encourage clients to delve into their introspection, identifying their unique “dragons.” This self-reflective process is crucial in understanding personal challenges and devising strategies to overcome them.

Anchoring the Lessons Learned

At the program’s conclusion, I revisit the coin’s symbolism, asking clients to articulate the meaning they’ve attached to it. This exercise is a form of anchoring – reinforcing the lessons learned and the personal battles they’ve overcome. It’s a powerful tool for solidifying their journey’s gains, providing a lasting reminder of their growth and resilience.

Integrating Internal and External Worlds

A common oversight in personal development is the failure to integrate the inner and external worlds. This misalignment often leads to chaos and wasted energy. By understanding and harmonizing these aspects, individuals can focus their efforts more effectively, ensuring that internal battles are addressed before manifesting in their external reality.

A Call to All Heroes

This article is a tribute to all the heroes I’ve known – those who’ve embarked on this transformative journey. It’s a call to action for anyone standing at the threshold of personal growth. Remember, there’s no growth without confronting and overcoming your inner dragons. In doing so, you not only emerge stronger but also more aligned with your true potential.

As a career coach, I’m committed to guiding you through this journey, helping you find your dragons and, more importantly, teaching you how to conquer them. Together, let’s embark on this hero’s journey toward a more fulfilling and empowered professional life.

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I’m psychically located in Amsterdam, and sometimes Tel Aviv and Barcelona and have also digital coaching clients.

About Tom Oor

I’m a Learning and Development Business Partner specializing in creating and facilitating leadership and organizational development programs with global teams. My focus is on Purpose-Driven Leadership and Organizations. We transform business value gaps into impactful learning solutions such as offsites, journeys, and global hybrid programs.

Core Expertise:

  • Accelerating people development for higher returns and faster results
  • Leading high-performance international teams
  • Purpose-driven leadership and organizations
  • Cultivating high-performance cultures

We have worked with amongst others ABN-Amro, Google, PwC, Booking.com, ASML, Scotch & Soda, and Top Employers Institute to design and deliver transformative programs.